Punctuality has always been an important value to me, but I’ve taken it a step further by making it a habit to arrive early — often well before the expected time. Whether it’s a church gathering, a badminton game, or a casual meetup with friends, I intentionally show up ahead of schedule. Here’s why this habit has become such an essential part of my life.
1. Time to Prepare and Be Present
Coming early allows me to gather my thoughts, calm my mind, and prepare for what’s ahead. Whether I’m about to lead a Bible study or participate in a group activity, arriving early gives me time to double-check my materials, reflect on my role, and pray for guidance. This quiet moment of preparation helps me be fully present when things begin.
2. Respect for Others’ Time
Arriving early is a sign of respect — not just for the schedule but for the people involved. By showing up early, I demonstrate that I value their time and the effort they’ve put into organizing the event. Whether it’s a one-on-one meeting or a larger gathering, this small act communicates commitment and consideration.
3. Building Stronger Connections
Some of the best conversations I’ve had have happened before the “official” start of an event. When you’re early, you often get to interact with others in a more relaxed environment. This has led to meaningful connections — whether chatting with friends before a meal or bonding with others before a group session.
4. Opportunities to Serve
Arriving early opens unexpected opportunities to help. Whether it’s setting up chairs at church, assisting with event logistics, or lending a hand before a meeting starts, being there ahead of time allows me to step in where needed. These moments of service have deepened my relationships and created lasting memories.
5. Creating a Peaceful Rhythm
It’s okay for me to wait rather than have others waiting for me. Whether it’s a date with Julia, a meeting with friends, or any gathering, I’d rather be the one calmly waiting than have someone feeling anxious because I’m running late. Rushing creates stress, while arriving early invites peace. I’ve found that starting my day without the pressure of running late brings calmness and focus. It allows me to sip my Batangas coffee without haste and reflect on my goals for the day — a practice that centers me.
6. A Boost in Confidence
Arriving early gives me a sense of control and confidence. Knowing that I have time to prepare, connect, or help out reassures me that I’m giving my best effort in any situation.
7. Coming Early to Meet God
When I come early for a church gathering or Bible study, I see it as arriving first before God. It’s a time to sit quietly, reflect, and invite His presence to move during the gathering. There’s a sense of excitement — like I’m showing up to meet someone important, eager to experience His presence before everything starts. This mindset has deepened my spiritual walk and strengthened my connection with Him.
8. Why Are We More Afraid to Be Late for Work Than for God?
When applying for a job or heading to work, we often make a conscious effort to arrive early, fearing the consequences of being late. Yet when it comes to gatherings that honor God — like worship services, prayer meetings, or Bible studies — some don’t feel the same urgency. This has always challenged me. If I can put so much effort into showing up early for my employer, how much more should I prioritize being early when coming before God?
Final Thoughts
Being early isn’t just about time management; it’s about mindset. It’s about showing up fully — prepared, respectful, and ready to serve. Whether arriving at church, a family gathering, or meeting friends, coming early has shaped my experiences and strengthened my connections.
I encourage you to try it — arrive early, embrace the calm, and see how it transforms your day.
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